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Sons And Daughters of Critical Mothers
Toxic Mother-Daughter Relationships
Have you ever eaten food that made your stomach sour? There is a good chance there was something toxic to you in that food. Your body knew what to do. Expel it ASAP.
What if that “toxin” comes in the form of abuse, negativity, and criticism? From a mother who sees the world through her needs instead of her dependent child’s.
A toxic mother-daughter relationship is when a daughter becomes an extension of her mother’s needs, rather than an extension that needs care and support to grow as a separate …
Sons of Toxic Mothers
Mothers and daughters are often seen as a package deal, however, the Mother-Son relationship has complex dynamics that impact a man into adulthood. If you have been following my blogs, then you are aware that I work closely with women who were raised by critical mothers. Of course, sons are not exempt from the struggle daughters have faced. Read my recent blog post to learn more.
It's not just daughters...
Are Mother Wounds exclusive? Picky? Gender-specific?
I don’t think so, actually, I know so. Mother Wounds are not only “sex blind” but they will be different for each and every one of us - whether we are male, female, trans, or nonbinary/ gender-nonconforming. Read my recent blog post to learn more.
I don’t think so, actually, I know so. Mother Wounds are not only “sex blind” but they will be different for each and every one of us - whether we are male, female, trans, or nonbinary/ gender-nonconforming. Read my recent blog post to learn more.
The Power of Friendships Between Women
Throughout history, women have come together in support of other women. This would bring generations together around a similar and difficult shared experience, for instance, childbirth, child-rearing, relationship celebrations and challenges, life passages, and grievances. Now, our lives are so much more separated. Making it crucial to find a female friend you can connect with. We make each other stronger.
Of course, this relationship is impacted, like all others, by our first relationship: the …
Of course, this relationship is impacted, like all others, by our first relationship: the …
Romantic Relationships & Your Mother Experience
Have you heard the expression, “I married my mother” (or father). Well, that actually makes a lot of sense when you think about it through an attachment lens. You see, our first relationships have the greatest impact and influence, consciously and unconsciously, on how we perceive the world and those in it. This is natural, healthy, and expected. However, if there were aspects of your early relationships you do not want to bring forward into your adult life, you may find my recent blog post use…
New Year, New Critical Loop
Every year when the ball drops, revelers around the nation hear the song “Auld Lang Syne” spread the message of leaving behind things we no longer want in the old year so we can bring our dreams into the new year. Often these gestures lead to a sense of disappointment, helplessness, and failure. The exact opposite of the intended resolution!
Read my recent blog post to learn more.
Read my recent blog post to learn more.
What Your Attachment Style Says About Your Mother Experience
In life, we may find ourselves interacting with others in particular patterns. The awareness of these patterns is more common now than ever, as we have better language and understanding that explains why and how these attachments occur. Read my recent blog post to learn more.
Making Traditions Your Own
As the holidays approach and family gatherings are planned, it’s natural to become aware of the traditions held by our family of origin. Whether these are religious ceremonies, meal rituals, or guidelines for gathering, there are many ways that we either preserve or discontinue the passing of customs. While some traditions offer joy and connection, some become a source of confusion or even contention as we reach adulthood. As we evolve from children, to adolescents, to adults, we have the power …
'Tis The Season: Setting Boundaries Around The Holidays
‘Tis the season for special traditions, twinkling lights, and navigating family dynamics. Whether you're heading home for the holidays, or simply staying in town, the most wonderful time of the year can become the most stressful time of the year when personalities and preferences collide. By intentionally setting boundaries ahead of time, we can lessen the impact of challenging family dynamics over the holiday season. Read my recent blog post to learn more.
Anger Isn’t A Bad Word: Healing the Hurt of the Mother Wound the Mother Wound
Anger. This heavy word carries with it a burdensome load of emotions, especially for those who experienced a Mother Wound. For many in this situation, they were taught that anger is wrong to feel and “bad” to express. As a result, the complexity of emotions beneath the anger is left unattended. When the layers of anger are peeled back, many discover a well of hurt that drives their thoughts, actions, and emotional patterns. In order to heal, the anger needs to be recognized, shared and befriende…